Women dating nice guys
“Women may perceive a responsive stranger as less desirable for different reasons," said Birnbaum in a press release."Women may perceive this person as inappropriately nice and manipulative (i.e., trying to obtain sexual favors) or eager to please, perhaps even as desperate, and therefore less sexually appealing.RELATED: Why Nice Guys Don't Finish Last — They Get Girlfriends 10. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."11. Nice guys don't always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words.Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear.Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin recently found that while men were attracted to nice-seeming women upon meeting them, women did not feel the same way about men.Researchers from the University of Rochester, the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign and the Interdisciplinary Center (IDC) Herzliya in Israel investigated a possible mechanism explaining why women and men differ in their sexual reactions with receptive opposite-sex strangers.
The surprising thing, however, is that majority of the female population apparently have the same problems.The goal here was to remove the potentially confounding elements of live social interaction (smiling, physical attractiveness) to see if they could isolate how much responsiveness—or niceness—played into attraction.The third and final study presented in the paper sought to test specifically whether the mechanism by which “responsiveness” motivated individuals to pursue relationships was, in fact, sexual arousal.However, they eventually switch over to being selfish.By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen hard and has a tough time letting go.